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Finger
Painting and Sex
Finger painting is not just for children, it
is for adults too! Adults of all sizes, shapes and forms can enjoy the benefits
of finger painting. Finger paints are a great way to let loose, get dirty and
express yourself in ways that you used to do as a child all the time. Sometimes
a picture is worth a million words. Who knows you might even find out that you
have some artistic abilities. When is the last time you attempted to paint a
truck? A flower? Or for that matter your lover? If you can not remember the last
time (or just want to have fun) then finish reading the tip and go to the
telephone and call your partner to set up a date.
Preparation:
The all natural blue, red and yellow finger paint set
To make all natural (and edible) blue, red and yellow finger paints:
Place a small amount of dark sesame oil in a pot and heat it up. Add one
cup of blueberries and a pinch of sea salt. Saute them for about 4 minutes. Add
enough water to just cover the blueberries. Bring to a boil. Then reduce the
flame to low, and simmer for several hours. The blueberries should become very
sweet tasting. During this time, occasionally check the blueberries, because you
may need to add small amounts of water to prevent burning. Add water as
necessary. When the blueberry paint is done, allow to cool. To make red finger
paints, use strawberries, and to make yellow paint use apples. The part about
this is that these paints can be made at home, your partner will never realize
what you are doing - he (or she) will just think you are having fun cooking, and
most importantly - it tastes really good! If food is what fuels your body - why
would you want to put anything into your system that isn't 100% natural?
The all natural paint brush set:
fingers (located on your hand) pita bread (bought in a store), daikon
(also purchased in a store). Fingers are fun because they allow you to directly
put energy into what you are painting. In addition, they come in 10 unique sizes
- all you have to do is choose one that feels right at the moment. Pita bread is
tasty for eating the paints off your lover (and fun for feeding your lover), and
daikons, when cut can be used to make stencils.
Procedure:
Ask him (or her) to come over tonight at 9pm. If he agrees give him the
following instructions:
A) Arrive clean (as in, freshly showered)
B) Wear clean clothes that can get dirty
C) Bring a blind fold
D) And flowers (the flowers are for you!)
When your partner arrives, ask him to take off all his clothes and fold them
neatly in a corner. After he has done so, ask him to put the flowers in a vase -
and put them where-ever you think they would look best. Next, have him put his
blind fold on. You may need to help him with this. Once he is fully unclothed,
and blindfolded, spin him 5 times fast around in a circle. Then walk him around.
Once he is confused as to his whereabouts, bring him to the dining room table,
spread out a large towel and help him crawl onto it. Once he has made himself
comfortable (for some people this may mean wearing socks - socks can keep you
warmer - for others it may mean lying on their stomach, and for others on their
sides or backs), dim the lights, put some soft music on, bring out your paint
set and take off his mask. If he asks what you are doing, tell him you are about
to begin your work, and you need him to be quite - or he might disturb you. Then
begin painting. You can begin anywhere on his body. Remember each time your
fingers touch his body (or one of your other paintbrushes) you are stimulating
your 'work.' Play with it.
If you are unsure how to begin, start by painting a blue circle around the belly
button. Then paint a slightly larger yellow circle. Then a red circle. Keep
getting bigger. After 6 circles, stop. Draw a huge red box around the left
breast. With the blue pain fill it in. Once you start to approach the nipple,
switch to yellow paint. On the inside right thigh draw a house. On the inside
left thigh draw a flower. Remember, each time you make a mistake - you will need
to use your tongue to fix it! Or if you partner is hungry, you can use your pita
bread to wipe up the mess and feed him with it. Paint his genitals last!
Depending upon your relationship with your partner, you may want to take a
picture of your art work (without the face ) …. Some partners will enjoy having
their picture taken, others will not. Make sure you ask first, and respect your
partners decision.
For the more adventurous people (ideally two men and a woman, or two women
and a man)
Person "A" is the table. To become a table, he will get down on his hands and
knees (as if he were going to crawl) and his back turns into the table. If the
man has lots of back hair (and he gives you permission) shave him. A shaved
back, creates a smoother table. For your meal, no silverware or plates are
needed. This helps the energy directly pass between the table and your mouth. No
artificial things like glasses, plates or silverware will be able to get in the
way. While some food temperature variation is important, make sure that none of
the food being served on his back is too hot or too cold.
Once the meal is served on person "A", person "B" and "C" will feed each other.
Don't forget to suck your eating utensils clean (as in, after each mouthful,
please suck on the fingers that were used to feed you).
Every once and a while, person "B" or "C" could
also wipe their hands clean somewhere on the table, preferably, on the inside
thighs, along the belly or if they prefer, they could have the table suck their
fingers clean. And if you so happen to get into a food fight, the table can also
be used to clean the genitals with his/her mouth. I highly recommend having
person "C" receive toe sucking from the table, and genital stimulation from
person "B". Throughout dinner, please request that the table remain stationary.
It is only after desert has been served that the table will be allowed to move.
For desert, person "B" will crawl under the table and suck on the nipples
(finger stimulation is good too). At the same time, person "C" will crawl
between person "A's" legs and suck on his (her) genitals (again finger
stimulation can also be a good thing). There are lots of variations to this. The
one important thing is that both person B and C will be playing with person A at
the same time.
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