SEX THERAPY IN PHILADELPHIA

Sex Therapist

Better Sex

Therapy in Philadelphia

written by : "Alex" Caroline Robboy, CAS, ACSW, LCSW

Learn the skills to having better sex without ever actually meeting with a sex therapist.

  • One of the most important concepts is to learn how to pace yourself. Meaning, each time you learn a new sex trick, tip or idea only introduce one new idea/concept per week to your lover. We suggest this for two reasons. First, becoming a great lover does not happen overnight. Each new tip, trick or idea needs practice. Spending a week on it allows sufficient time to fully explore it. Furthermore, by pacing out the new ideas you suddenly become viewed as 'creative'. Each time your lover has sex with you, you are doing something new! His or her perception of your love making skills is critical. If she / he thinks you are good, he / she will be anticipating something pleasurable, thus making her/him more easily excitable. Imagine the famous Pavlov experiment, where Pavlov was able to make a dog salivate simply by hearing the bell ring. This is what you are trying to do to your partner, you want him/her to get wet without your having to actually do anything.
  • Read some sexy books out loud with your partner. While in some ways this might be an embarrassing task, it has the potential to open an entire new discourse on sexuality. Reading engages the brain.
  • Sexual Communication. Request feedback. While words can be useful, request feedback through the senses. For example, ask your partner, if she likes what you are doing to make noises. The louder she is the more she likes it, and the more you will do it. Feel her heart beat. The faster her pulse, the more she likes it. If you are struggling with how to get feedback, we have designed a tip specifically on this topic.
  • Play the mirror game. Touch your partner, the way your partner normally touches you. Typically people touch others the way they want to be touched, thus by playing the mirror game (doing everything in the same way back to them) almost by default you will have discovered your partners favorite likes and dislikes.
  • Rent some sex educational videos of people having sex and watch them with your partner (these types of videos are often boring, but educational. Probably in part because they are 'boring' they promote a certain type of conversation, which promotes better sex). One of the advantages of videos is you can actually see people having sex. While, as a therapist, I am a big believer in talking, sometimes the adage, a picture is worth a thousand words, is accurate.
  • Read some books on how to become a better lover. Sometimes, learning a new technique for touching is enough.
  • Read some self help tips on becoming a better lover, this website is packed with tips, tricks and ideas. If you are seeking general sex tips if you need help overcoming a specific problem like premature ejaculation or you are clueless as to how to have an orgasm or maybe you simply have questions about sexual orientation For a full scope of our self help tips.


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May benefit from our services:

individual counseling, couples counseling, couples therapy, marriage counseling, marriage therapy, sex therapy, grief therapy, anger management therapy, and addiction counseling. Mental health therapists may be marriage and family therapists, social workers, psychologists, psychiatrists, counseling practitioners just to name a few. If you have enjoyed our self help tips, please let us know.

You do not need to ever need to meet us to benefit from our collective years of wisdom in this field. Many of our ideas are written down in the form of self help tips that are free to be read by anyone on the Internet. If we are good, eventually we will have worked ourselves out of a job and you will be able to live the life you have always wanted to!

Founder of Sex Therapy
in Philadelphia

"Alex" Caroline Robboy, CAS,
ACSW, LCSW

To schedule an appointment, please call: 267 - 324 - 9564

If you live in Center City Philadelphia and the surrounding regions, including the Main Line, Montgomery County, Bucks County, Chestery County, Cherry Hill and Southern New Jersey area and want to schedule an appointment for individual therapy, couples therapy, marriage counseling, sex therapy, family therapy or play therapy call (267) 324-9564.

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